Tuesday, July 25, 2006

WE'VE BOOKED OUR TICKETS / ON A RESERVE NOS BILLETS!


Departing August 9 returning on my birthday, August 16.

I am so happy! Finally AT LAST!!! It would have taken 1 year and 10 days to hold our angel in our arms!

I guess we will be able to say it has been a long and difficult labour!

Départ le 9 août retour le jour de mon anniversaire, le 16.

Chui si heureuse!!! Enfin!!! Cela aura pris 1 and et 10 jours pour tenir notre ange dans nos bras!

Je crois qu'on peux dire que cela aurait été un long et pénible accouchement!!!

Monday, July 24, 2006

Patience is a Virtue?! La Patience est une Vertue?

Yeah sure! Ouais c'est c'la!

Anyhow, it's bloody 2 o'clock in the freaking morning and I cannot sleep! It's soooooooo hot...too hot!!! I've checked it is 28.9 degrees in our bed room. We have a cool old fashioned Indian Fan ...it does make a little difference! But I guess we will need to get used to it, it's so much hotter in India!
Also I am starting with a sore throat! @*#%&!!!

Bon, il est 2 heures du mat et je n'arrive pas à dormir! Il fait si chaud...trop chaud!!! J'ai regardé...28.9 degré dans notre chambre à couché. On a un ancien ventilateur Indien. Il a vraiment de l'allure. Ca donne de l'air. Bon je me dis qu'on devrait s'habituer car on aura encore plus chaud en Inde!
Aussi je commence avec un mal de gorge! @*#%&!!!

Sunday, July 23, 2006

Bellini's


The Bellini was first invented in 1948 at Harry's Bar in Venice Italy. Giuseppe Cipriani was the head bartender at the time and he loved Italian White Peaches. He worked long and hard trying to develop a perfect cocktail which would use them as a base, then he tried the simple combination of pureed white peaches and prosecco. He knew it was IT!

I personnally think that one should NOT use French Champagne when making Bellini's as it's too rich of flavor and usually it is not a good match for such a fruity cocktail. A light, fruity, Italian style sparkling wine is the perfect accompanyment to the peach puree. A good Asti Spumanti would be perfect!

A true Bellini is a refreshing drink. Don't confuse it with a Mimosa. It has nothing to do with it as people use orange juice and often juice from a carton which isn't all that great to start with.

I've search in my cook books, on the net for Bellini's recipes and I could not really find THE recipe so I decided to try it myself...I just put some beautiful peeled, ripe white peaches in the blender. I did not add anything. I just pureed it to a very thin consistency.

Measurments should be:
1 ounce white peach puree
5 ounces chilled champagne




The Harry's Bar Bellini

Friday, July 21, 2006

EARTH, FIRE AND WATER

EARTH
FIRE

WATER

So what are they? 3 of the 4 elements? Where is air? Well that is a very good question...but I am not really talking about the elements as such...I am talking about Deepa Mehta's films. I heard they are the most beautiful films ever...so I went a did a little research...

So who is Deepa Mehta?
It appears, she has become the voice of a new India, but India has a difficult time accepting what she has to say. Due to her bi-cultural roots (she was born in Amritsar in 1950 and moved to Canada in the early seventies) she has become one of India's most controversial and taboo-breaking filmakers. It is said that women salute her and that men often dispise her. It is reported that a man shouted "I am going to shoot you, Madam" in 1996 after the première screening of the movie "Fire" the first movie to explore female homosexuality in modern/contemporary India.

In 1998 Earth came out. Ms. Mehta showed religious intolerance and violence that erupted among Sikhs, Muslims and Hindus during the partition of India and Pakistan in 1947. The movie was better accepted by the Indian community, in large part because it was set in the past and because it investigated the effects of colonialism.

Fire is a tale of two vital, beautiful women breaking their cultural obstacles and being reborn through the passion they express for each other. Their relationship is forbidden, but it is by giving into. It is supposed to show the struggle between tradition and new ideas.

But Water, the final film in Ms Mehta's trilogy on the elements, sparked controversy even before filming started. The shooting was supposed to take place in the holy city of Varanasi in 2000, because the "widow houses" still exist there but violence from local political parties and Hindu extremists forced Ms Mehta to retreat. Shooting resumed only years later in Sri Lanka. Even there, the movie had to be shot under a false working title. The story is told through the eyes of a six (6!!!) year old widow. It tells the story of Indian women who are labeled as worthless because their husbands have disappeared. Forced to live in a house of confinement, they often turn to prostitution to survive.

It appears that in Earth, Ms Mehta's explored the taboo of religious extremism, in Fire, she explored the taboo of female homosexuality then in Water attacks the taboo of social humiliation of women.

Does that mean that Ms Mehta’s movies will make a difference in todays society?

In the meantime I would love watching these films...Mim, thank you so much for telling me all about them. I got so curious that I decided to conduct this "little research project" and post it on my blog.

Have any of you seen any of them? If so I would love to hear your comments about them.

I am trying to find a DVD of the first two and cannot wait for Water to come out on the big screen here in Luxembourg!

Pour ceux qui ne connaissent pas...for the ones who don't know

Below pictures of the village we live in.
Ci-dessous, des photos du village où l'on habite





One Big, Happy Family


One of my fellow blogger has question our ability to "parent" both our little girl and Pashmina...

Here is an interesting article on how we can help our four legged fur face babies accept the new addition to the familly.

http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?

The article is by FRAN EISENMAN and appeared in www.adoptivefamillies.com

Interestingly enough we followed her recommendations instinctively.

We have also sent our little Princess photographs of us all including Pashmina, our house, her room, her bed, my car, an airplane (inside and out). Apparently she seems to be very interested looking at the pictures but she keeps on looking at Pashmina and saying: "NAI" which means dog in Tamil.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Mdr / LoL!!!

Today I nearly had a car accident listening to the "coup de boule" song that was playing on the radio...

Aujourd'hui j'ai presque eu un accident lorsque la chanson "coup de boule" passait sur la radio luxembourgeoise...j'était MDR

Mais commençons par le début: le 7 juillet, Cauet présentait cette chanson au publique...



Depuis...je crois que le GRAND TUBE de l'été va être:

Thank you Dolly for giving me this wonderful receipe! Merci Dolly de m'avoir donné cette délicieuse recette!






Haartelijk Dank lieve Dolly! Het was echt heel lekker! :-))))

Saturday, July 15, 2006

Mon test de la saison...this season's test


Mes tomates...j'en planterai plus l'année prochaine! Elles sont si délicieuses!

My tomatoes...I will grow more of them next year! They are soo good!

Friday, July 14, 2006

Delhi - 550 varieties of the "king of fruits" / 550 variétés du "Roi des fruits"



Je n'en reviens pas qu'il y ait un festival de mangues à Delhi. Et en plus qu'il y en a plus de mille (1000) variétés c'est incroyable! Je croyais qu'il y en avait que 5 ou 6. Je me souviens aux Philippines on faisait presque des orgies de mangues...au petit déjeuné, en snack, l'après-midi, comme dessert...on se régalait...le fruit de là-bas n'a rien à voir avec le fruit que l'on trouve ici en grande surface.

Pour en lire plus, veuillez cliquer sur le liens ci-dessus.

I cannot believe there is actually a 2 day mango festival in Delhi and that more than an thousand (1000) varieties of this fruit exist is incredible! I thought there were only 5 or 6 varieties world wide! I remember in the Philippines we use to have orgies of them...for breakfast, snack, in the afternoon with tea, desert...yummy! The taste of them has nothing to do with the stuff we find here in normal grocery stores.

To read more about it, please click on the above link.

Today's little project...le projet d'aujourd'hui #2

SO I GOT ALL EQUIPED...ALORS JE ME SUIS EQUIPEE...


Home made lemonade + music to get in the mood:
Citronnade maison + musique pour la motivation:




BEFORE / AVANT



AFTER / APRES


Ah quelle satisfaction/ ah how satisfying it is...

Now I need to tackle the basement...maintenant je dois "attaquer" la cave...

Today's little project...le projet d'aujourd'hui

RANGER ET ORGANISER LE GARAGE...

CLEAN AND ORGANISE OUR GARAGE...

'Comon...I need some motivation and courage! It's a real mess down there!

Allez...J'ai besoin de motivation et de courage! C'est vraiment le bazar là en bas!

I will post before / after pictures later as proof I have done the job!

Bon je crois que je devrai poster des photos avant/après comme preuve que j'ai fait le boulot!

Bonne journée à tous!
You'all have a nice day!

Thursday, July 13, 2006

It looks like...On dirait qu'...

We won't have our little Darling for her 2nd Birthday!



On aura pas notre Puce pour ses 2 ans!

Je suis si décue!

I am so upset and disapointed!

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Ce soir...tonight...









On a des tickets pour le concert en plein air de Sigur Ros. Le cadre: une abbaye dans le vieux Luxembourg. Ca va être génial pour ce genre de musique.
We have tickets for the open air concert of Sigur Ros. The setting: an old abbaye in the old part of Luxembourg city. It will be great for this kind of music!

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Alex's joke on Mark...La farce d'Alex

Cette Coquine a fait une sacrée farce samedi soir à Mark...
This Rascal really played a trick on Mark Saturday night...



A la place d'un gâteau d'anniversaire...une pdt! Tu l'as bien eu ma Puce! Bravo!

Instead of a birthday cake a baked potato! You are right... gatcha Mark! Well done Alex!

Photos qu'on veut envoyer à notre Puce.../ Pictures we want to send to our little Angel



On nous a dit qu'on pouvait envoyer des photos à notre fille via le biais de notre agence...alors mis à part celles de nous on a pensé joindre des photos de sa chambre ou en tout cas, celle de son lit...

We were told that we could send pictures to our daughter via our agency...so appart from the ones of us we thought of joining pictures of her room or at least the one of her bed...

Our new front door / Notre nouvelle porte d'entrée



Pour ceux qui connaissaient l'ancienne...ça change tout l'aspect de la maison...non?

For the ones who knew the old one...it changes the whole aspect of the house...doesn't it?

Monday, July 10, 2006

India Juvenile Act: Changes in adoption process

One of my fellow blogger, Sandra, found this most interesting link on Adoption (laws) changes in India. Indeed, a report from New Delhi states that the Union cabinet approving amendments to the Juvenile Justice Bill of 2005 should, if approved by Parliament, cut red tape and increase the number of agencies working in the country.

Sunday, July 09, 2006

Alex, ceci est pour toi...

Je t'en ai parlé hier soir de cette photo et je sais que tu ADORES les dauphins et les chiens...Elle est géniale non?

Je n'ai pas oublié ma promesse...un jour je t'emmernerai plonger avec les dauphins...ok?



N'oublies jamais que tu es quelqu'un d'extraordinaire et qu'on t'aime tous! Tu es dans nos coeur à tout jamais et n'écoutes pas les bêtises des autres...ils sont JALOUX!

Keep cool!

Friday, July 07, 2006

On ne connaît toujours pas la date du terme! We still don't have a due date!

Bon retour du meeting...

Toujours pas de date du terme sinon peut-être la 3e sem. du mois d'août...mais on nous dit de ne pas encore réserver l'avion.

On nous a parlé des choses pratiques...hotels, taxis verus chauffeurs, vaccins, médics à prendre pour nous, habits à prendre pour la petite etc. Mark a signé le papier comme quoi il sera l'Escort de notre puce, et la liste des docs qu'on aura besoin pour l'adoption définitive ici au Lux. Voilà c'est à peu près tout.

Still no precise date...maybe the 3rd week in August...but they tell us not to book flights as of yet.

They talk about practical stuff...hotels, taxis versus drivers, vaccinations, medicine, clothes for her...Mark signed the official Escort papers and we received the list of documents we will need for the final adoption process here in Luxembourg. I guess this is about it.

Just wish we could get enduced NOW!
J'aurai tant voulu qu'on nous provoque MAINTENANT!

Rendez vous 9h30 à l'Association / 9.30 am meeting at our Agency

Afin de discuter de la phase finale de notre accouchement...

To discuss the final stages of our delivery...

We might finally get a due date! On connaîtera peut-être la date du terme! (enfin!)

More later...A+ Je file

Thursday, July 06, 2006

CONGRATULATIONS RICK & JO!

IT'S A BOY***IT'S A BOY***IT'S A BOY***IT'S A BOY***

WELL DONE GUYS ON THE BIRTH OF YOUR SON

We are thrilled to be his Uncle and Aunt!

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Happy Birthday my Coco!



I wish you not only a very good day, but an excellent year!


Ok make a wish...



May all your dreams come true.

Yours...always!

Monday, July 03, 2006

ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL POEM

I remember reading this poem a while ago and thought I had saved it. Could not find it any more until today...

Here it is:

Legacy of an Adopted Child

Once there were two women who never knew each other.
One you do not remember, the other you call Mother.

Two different lives shaped to make you one.
One became your guiding star, the other became your sun.

The first one gave you life, and the second taught you to live it.
The first gave you the need for love. The second was there to give it.

One gave you nationality. The other gave you a name.
One gave you talent. The other gave you aim.

One gave you emotions. The other calmed your fears.
One saw your first sweet smile. The other dried your tears.

One sought for you a home she could not provide.
The other prayed for a child and her hope was not denied.

And now you ask me, through your tears,
the age-old question unanswered through the years.

Heredity or environment, which are you a product of?
Neither, my darling. Neither. Just two different kinds of love.

Author Unknown

A shakira on Lake Nagin


A Shakira in Kashmir is like a Gondola in Venice but better...one can lie down on the double bed! It's just haven! One feels like Maharajah and Maharhina!

Un Shakira au Cachemire c'est comme une gondole à Venise mais en mieux...on peut se coucher sur le lit double! C'est paradisiaque! On se sent comme des Maharajah et Maharhina!

The Best Book on Adoption!

This is by far the best book I've read on Toddler adoption. I highly recommend it!

In this book, Mary Hopkins-Best, a child developmemt expert and a mother of a child adopted as a toddler, provides a guide book or shall I say a bible for people who are (considering) adopting toddlers.


Jayne, I said I will lend it to you...but I won't...this book is too precious...I've just ordered you a copy as I am sure we will both want / need to refer to it often.

Sunday, July 02, 2006

A BEAUTIFUL POEM...

A poem by Christine Futia as she awaited the arrival of her first child, Leo, from India...

I guess it sums it all up!

Song of the Waiting Mother

I'm pregnant, but my tummy isn't growing,
And no one ever calls me "Little Mom."
The public simply isn't overflowing
With questions that I'd handle with aplomb.

There are no special clothes to mark my waiting.
Nobody stops and smiles as I pass by.
The absence of a due-date is frustrating
And looking at the nursery make me cry.

When I am overdue no one will worry.
The phone won't ring and ring as friends check in.
I can't induce my labor in a hurry,
My new life as a parent to begin.

Adoption is a worrisome endeavor,
And waiting all alone is not much fun.
To be "with child" a year seems like forever.
Dear God, we're ready! Please send us our son!

C.F. 1987

36 Billion Dollars



36 Billion Dollars! I don't think one realise what 36 Billion Dollars is or feels like having!?

I read somewhere...if you are the world's second richest man, who would be the best person to look after this huge amount of money? Yes you are right the RICHEST man: Mr Gates himself...El Supremo! But what I find amazing is that he put his ego aside and gave most of his money to Bill and Melinda Gates' foundation.

So this past week I was reading all about this multi billion dollars transaction and I learned a new word...Billanthropy...I then realized how little I knew about the foundation. What is it they do really? I knew they had some program on Malaria, I knew they had a program about libraries and education but that was it. So I decided to make a little research...

The foundation has different areas of activities. They concentrate on:

GLOBAL HEALTH
Aiming to accelerate the access of vaccination (they managed to reach so far 78 million children with vaccines for diseases such as hepatitis B & yellow fever and nearly 8.7 million children with vaccines for diseases like tetanus and diphtheria). In Pakistan alone, their initiative has helped prevent tens of thousands of babies from dying of tetanus.

Aiming to accelerate the access of medicine and other medical support to help fight disease in developing countries.

Aiming to support research; hoping to discover new solutions that are affordable and effective. For example Malaria vaccine research - see: www.malariavaccine.org

Aiming to educate women and protect them against HIV/AIDS. They have a program in Botswana and another one in India. In India, they help support different projects in the areas of India's national highways and 6 states where high rates of infected people are located. They manage to reach, every months tens of thousands of people who are at high risk of being infected with their prevention program by offering HIV/AIDS education, treatment of STD, they distribute clean needles and syringes and last but not least condoms. I just could not believe how many condoms were being distributed to date...4.2 million according to their website.

EDUCTION
This program appears to be aimed at US Nationals. The Foundation is dedicated and committed to raising the high school diploma / graduation rate in the US helping teenagers regardless of their race, family income, background to get an education. I recently read an article on how many kids in the US are high school dropouts. The numbers are staggering! It came close to 40%. When asked whom their 1st president was, a high number of teenagers could not answer the question yet they all expect to party like crazy on the 4th of July!

GLOBAL LIBRARIES
It aims to give the Public access to information and therefore increases access to things such as technology in low-income and or disadvantaged communities. This program is divided in two sections, the US Library Program and International Library Initiatives.
For the US program they have for example helped re-build libraries in Louisiana and Mississippi after the tragedy of Katarina.

To conclude, surely an extra 36 million dollars could make amazing things happen and a huge difference, accelerate medicine and vaccinations programs worldwide, educate people about STDs and AIDS infection, build lots of libraries, help teenage kids but with 36 extra million dollars, isn't it a huge risk they run? I guess I will ask my DH and ask him what he thinks he who has worked in Banking for so many years and was at one point the head of Risk Management in different organisations. I am intrigued of what he will say. But my fear is all is good now and all will be good until the 3 new trustees (BG, MG and WB) will die...and then what? How do we know the foundation will be managed properly? How will we know if the new management are true philanthropists? I guess only time will tell. In the meantime all I can say is:

GOOD LUCK Mr and Mrs GATES and thank you for what you are doing...helping make this world a better one for our children.

To read more about the foundation, please click on the link below:
www.gatesfoundation.org

Friday, June 30, 2006

Mr Marvellous


When we were in Kashmir, Mr Marvellous delivered fresh flowers to our house boat. How I wish we had a Mr Marvellous bringing us fabulous flowers to our house here in Luxembourg!

Joyeux Anniversaire C!

Tu es dans me pensées et dans mon coeur!

Yabada badoo!

This is what Fred Flinstone says when he's happy!



We'll we are OVER THE MOON!!! The judge signed the PAPERS

Different kind of adoption...

Please click on the link above.

I find it really scary...but then again I really really dislike snakes!

Wednesday, June 28, 2006

LE FOOT ENCORE LE FOOT ET TOUJOURS LE FOOT...GO BECKHAM!

BEND IT LIKE BECKHAM / JOUE LA COMME BECKHAM!

I am not a football/soccer fan but I LOVE elephants! I will never forget my experience at Pinnawela, Sri Lanka, the elephant orphanage(more on this subject on some later post).

Je ne suis pas trop fan de foot mais j'ADORE les éléphants! Je n'oublierai jamais mon expérience à l'orphelinat des éléphants à Pinnawela au Sri Lanka (plus à ce sujet une autre fois).




Beckham the elephant and Rajabhat Ayutthaya University soccer players vie for the ball during a match in Thailand on Thursday.

Beckham l'éléphant et les joueurs de foot de l'université de Rajabhat Ayutthaya luttent pour le ballon pendant le match qui a eu lieu jeudi en Thaïlande.

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

What a dog's life / Quelle vie de chien #3



C'est un mauvais montage photo! C'est carrément IMPOSSIBLE!

This is badly tricked! It is IMPOSSIBLE!

Par contre ceci l'est...si on donnerait l'opportunité à Pashmina, elle n'hésiterait pas une seconde! Ces chiens sont des boules d'AMOUR mais aussi des aspirateurs à 4 pattes!

However this is possible...if Pashmina were given the chance she wouldn't hesitate! These dogs are real LOVING fur balls but also 4 legged vacuum cleaners!




Plus besoin de mettre la fonction "pré-lavage"
No need to put the "pre-wash" mode.

Many Happy Returns Elisabeth!

Hope you will have a great one!

Love from the 3 of us ;-)

Monday, June 26, 2006

Quelle vie de Chien! What a dog's life # 2



C'EST SI CRUEL!
IT'S SO CRUEL!


Et quelles sont les conséquences de l'Azote dans le corps Canin?
And what are the consequences of the Nitrogen in the body of a dog?

A QUI DE DROIT / TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN



Avez-vous besoin d'un stylo pour signer ces @ç%&* papiers?
Do you need a pen do sign those @*%& papers?

Sunday, June 25, 2006

CHOCOLATE CAKE - GATEAU AU CHOCOLAT


Qui peut me donner une bonne recette pour un gâteau au chocolat?

Can anyone give me a good receipe for a chocolate cake?

No comments!

Pashmina's birthday

Yesterday Pashmina turned 3!
Hier Pashmina a fêté ces trois ans!





Pashmina ouvre le cadeau que ces amies lui ont offert...opens the present her girl friends gave her...



How she un-wraps her presies...comment elle ouvre ces cadeaux...





Friday, June 23, 2006

Puppies versus a cat

It's soooooooo cute!

Also tomorrow Pashmina is turning 3 years old! I cannot believe it! When I see the clip i get soo brudy and would love another puppy!

On a nos visas! We have our visas!



Validity: 6 months
No of entries: Multiple

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

Happy Birthday David!



May all your wishes come true!

Kiss kiss from the 3 of us :-)

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

Preet Mandir #3

I guess it makes us realise why the adoption of our child is taking so long...we know all is leagal and we will be able to tell her in her rebellion years that we did not buy her off the shelves!

Je crois que ces filmes nous font réaliser pourquoi l'adoption de notre enfant traîne...nous savons que tout est fait de manière légale et nous pourrons lui dire lorsqu'elle atteindra l'age rebelle qu'on ne l'a pas acheté d'un rayon x ou y.

Preet Mandir #2

No comments!!!

Preet Mandir

Above, a link where one can see a news report made by six CNN-IBN reporters. They conducted a Special Investigation over six months in Pune, Maharashtra, Rourkela, Cochin and London.

It's scandalous! When are they going to stop all of this??? Just watching this made me nauseous! I thought all of this had stopped in India as all is very controlled now (hence us waiting for so long!). I think we too, as bloggers we need to educate the world and tell them that "Pay in Dollars and adopt a child" is WRONG and against the law in most countries.

Ci-dessus un lien sur un reportage effectué par 6 journalistes de CNN-IBN. Ils ont mené une recherche spéciale sur une période de six mois entre Pune, Maharashtra, Rourkela, Cochin et Londres.

C'est un scandale! Quand vont-ils mettre un terme à tout cela??? Le fait de regarder ce reportage m'a donné la nausée! J'avais cru que tout cela était terminé en Inde et que tout était devenu très strict étant donné notre abominable longue attente. Je pense que c'est aussi notre rôle, nous "bloggeurs", d'éduquer le monde et de leur dire que "Payez en Dollars et adoptez un enfant" est MAL, MAUVAIS et ILLEGAL dans la plus part des pays!

Merci Suzanne d'avoir posté le lien sur le forum ;-)